Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? - Santo Domingo

RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"?

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generoso previously said:

In the DR it is a common sight to see mature and older men, mostly European, parading and showing off younger Dominican "trophy" wives, and pushing the baby cart with Dominican children. This is a now a common occurrence, influenced by the popularity of erectile disfunction pharmaceuticals that bring new sexual vigor to older men.
Are these younger women in their prime "gold diggers" or the equivalent of female "sankies"?
Can we condemn them for wanting to get out of the circle of poverty into a better life for their children?
Is it wrong for them to aspire to more upward mobility, an opportunity for a better higher education for their family and a worry free life, without daily and constant struggles?
Where would love fit into this arrangement?
I will like your opinion on this subject that affects Dominican society. I will like to concentrate on younger women that marry older men, due to the fact that mostly European older men often choose to start new families, and have children and are usually very committed and responsible for that goal.
European men are usually fit and still attractive although the age difference is substantial in most cases.
Would you mind if your sister, daughter or close family marry one of these "Dons", in the autumn of their lives?

With today's medicine advancement if a person is vibrant and young at heart, I don't see why it couldn't be possible for a younger woman to go for a healthy vibrant older man? This older man could be very healthy and physically fit and not to mention there's the experience factor too.

#29 - Posted 27 August 2009, 2:28 PM
generoso Location: United States, Quisqueya La Bella Join date: August 2008 Member #: 1291 Posts: 5729	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: Viivalaverdad previously said: Quote: generoso previously said: In the DR it is a common sight to see mature and older men, mostly European, parading and showing off younger Dominican "trophy" wives, and pushing the baby cart with Dominican children. This is a now a common occurrence, influenced by the popularity of erectile disfunction pharmaceuticals that bring new sexual vigor to older men. Are these younger women in their prime "gold diggers" or the equivalent of female "sankies"? Can we condemn them for wanting to get out of the circle of poverty into a better life for their children? Is it wrong for them to aspire to more upward mobility, an opportunity for a better higher education for their family and a worry free life, without daily and constant struggles? Where would love fit into this arrangement? I will like your opinion on this subject that affects Dominican society. I will like to concentrate on younger women that marry older men, due to the fact that mostly European older men often choose to start new families, and have children and are usually very committed and responsible for that goal. European men are usually fit and still attractive although the age difference is substantial in most cases. Would you mind if your sister, daughter or close family marry one of these "Dons", in the autumn of their lives? With today's medicine advancement if a person is vibrant and young at heart, I don't see why it couldn't be possible for a younger woman to go for a healthy vibrant older man? This older man could be very healthy and physically fit and not to mention there's the experience factor too. I agree with you 100%, age should have no bearing on the fact, as long as there are certain "rules". I happened to have met women of very modest means that have blossomed and gotten a higher education and much social polish, because of the influence of a "mature" husband. "United by purpose, bound by honor", La Hermandad.
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#21 - Posted 27 August 2009, 11:43 AM
Chico81 Location: United States, Bronx, NY Join date: August 2009 Member #: 3394 Posts: 101	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? I just think there is a mentality of getting over on other people, or taking advantage of people and it is pervasive. In DR a lot of times its actually looked down upon or your called a "pendejo/a" for not taking advantage of people. But what can you expect when the government is so corrupt. They set the examples. The baseball players which so many young people look up to, turns out a whole bunch of them are cheaters too. It is hard to draw positive examples or influences.
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#22 - Posted 27 August 2009, 11:49 AM
Chico81 Location: United States, Bronx, NY Join date: August 2009 Member #: 3394 Posts: 101	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: xwill7 previously said: The women are looking for daddy There is truth to this as well. Many are looking for the father figure they never had.
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#23 - Posted 27 August 2009, 12:03 PM
Escott Location: Dominican Republic, Cabrera and Sosua a 2 days a month for payday Join date: December 2007 Member #: 36 Posts: 767	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? The women are looking for a stable relationship and someone to help them with the fatherless children they have thanks to "Love em and Leave em" Macho Dominicanos who only want to inpregnate as many women as possible. Thank you Dominican Tigres for the beautiful girlfriend this old man has now!
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#24 - Posted 27 August 2009, 12:09 PM
USADR Location: United States Join date: February 2008 Member #: 340 Posts: 1056	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: Escott previously said: The women are looking for a stable relationship and someone to help them with the fatherless children they have thanks to "Love em and Leave em" Macho Dominicanos who only want to inpregnate as many women as possible. Thank you Dominican Tigres for the beautiful girlfriend this old man has now! Brasilenos, no longer using Brazilian themed screen names? :
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#25 - Posted 27 August 2009, 12:12 PM
Lautaro Location: Dominican Republic, Santo Domingo Join date: December 2007 Member #: 38 Posts: 4956	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: USADR previously said: Quote: Escott previously said: The women are looking for a stable relationship and someone to help them with the fatherless children they have thanks to "Love em and Leave em" Macho Dominicanos who only want to inpregnate as many women as possible. Thank you Dominican Tigres for the beautiful girlfriend this old man has now! Brasilenos, no longer using Brazilian themed screen names? : Nah, he's just another troublemaker that got banned for the same reason on DR1. "A man who strives after goodness in all his acts is sure to come to ruin, since there are so many men who are not good." Niccolo Macchiavelli - The Prince
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#26 - Posted 27 August 2009, 12:26 PM
Viivalaverdad Location: Dominican Republic Join date: July 2009 Member #: 3097 Posts: 24	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: generoso previously said: In the DR it is a common sight to see mature and older men, mostly European, parading and showing off younger Dominican "trophy" wives, and pushing the baby cart with Dominican children. This is a now a common occurrence, influenced by the popularity of erectile disfunction pharmaceuticals that bring new sexual vigor to older men. Are these younger women in their prime "gold diggers" or the equivalent of female "sankies"? Can we condemn them for wanting to get out of the circle of poverty into a better life for their children? Is it wrong for them to aspire to more upward mobility, an opportunity for a better higher education for their family and a worry free life, without daily and constant struggles? Where would love fit into this arrangement? I will like your opinion on this subject that affects Dominican society. I will like to concentrate on younger women that marry older men, due to the fact that mostly European older men often choose to start new families, and have children and are usually very committed and responsible for that goal. European men are usually fit and still attractive although the age difference is substantial in most cases. Would you mind if your sister, daughter or close family marry one of these "Dons", in the autumn of their lives? With today's medicine advancement if a person is vibrant and young at heart, I don't see why it couldn't be possible for a younger woman to go for a healthy vibrant older man? This older man could be very healthy and physically fit and not to mention there's the experience factor too.
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#27 - Posted 27 August 2009, 12:37 PM
xwill7 Location: United States, Chicago Join date: March 2009 Member #: 2300 Posts: 5062	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: generoso previously said: Quote: xwill7 previously said: The women are looking for daddy "Sugar Daddy" you mean. LOL There is this guy that is 50+ years old... he has brought 5 women in their 20's... Married them in DR and got tired of her and went back for another one. crazy!
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#28 - Posted 27 August 2009, 2:24 PM
generoso Location: United States, Quisqueya La Bella Join date: August 2008 Member #: 1291 Posts: 5729	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: xwill7 previously said: Quote: generoso previously said: Quote: xwill7 previously said: The women are looking for daddy "Sugar Daddy" you mean. LOL There is this guy that is 50+ years old... he has brought 5 women in their 20's... Married them in DR and got tired of her and went back for another one. crazy! Not crazy at all, he is like a kid inside a toy factory!!!!!!LOL "United by purpose, bound by honor", La Hermandad.
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#30 - Posted 27 August 2009, 2:32 PM
generoso Location: United States, Quisqueya La Bella Join date: August 2008 Member #: 1291 Posts: 5729	RE: Young women marrying older men - Are they "gold diggers"? Quote: Escott previously said: The women are looking for a stable relationship and someone to help them with the fatherless children they have thanks to "Love em and Leave em" Macho Dominicanos who only want to inpregnate as many women as possible. Thank you Dominican Tigres for the beautiful girlfriend this old man has now! Sad but true. Many younger Dominican women have children from careless pregnancies at a very young age, and then they are stuck with them all their lives, and can not escape the circle of poverty. Many Dominican men are very irresponsible in caring for their biological offsprings, because of the laxity in child support legislation. It is really sad the aloofness of men or the persistent desire to impregnate women to prove their masculinity. "United by purpose, bound by honor", La Hermandad.
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